Abbie has her coffee every morning. She has since she stopped breastfeeding. We had figured it changed the flavor of my breast milk and she was getting her coffee every morning since she was born. As for the caffeine, i would say none, or next to none was in the breast milk. Just the flavor. I don't remember how we realized she needed her coffee, but we did. So every morning, in her sippy, went a little bit of coffee, some creamer, sweet n low, and some milk. She was very much a grouch before she got her coffee and then fine afterward. so my 2 y/o daughter is addicted to coffee, cafinated coffee.
Lets fast forward to the first day of Kindergarten..
Baby, did you eat all you cereal? grab your backpack? brush your teeth? don't forget to drink your coffee...
I should probably switch her to hot ovaltine.